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Many of us have very different dreams. But most people want to be happy and want their loved ones to be happy.
We often perceive happiness as a destination or a goal, for which we have to work hard. But there is an old gem of wisdom, which says something different.
You can see it on the little plack I have at home, in the picture above. I opened my book Self-Gamification Happiness Formula with it:
“Happiness is not a destination. It is a way of life.”
— Anonymous
And with these, I closed the book:
“Be content with what you have; rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the world belongs to you.”
— Lao Tsu
“Happiness is a choice, not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy. No person will make you happy unless you decide to be happy. Your happiness will not come to you. It can only come from you.”
— Ralph Marston
I found these two on a blouse I once bought and loved wearing for special occasions.
They are brilliant and to the point. But you might ask how you can live a happy life, as these pearls of wisdom suggest.
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What being happy really means
While turning my life into games, exploring the process, and writing about it in my books, I realized that being happy does not mean being constantly happy. But it means to experiment, being curious, and as soon as you see that you deviated from your happy path, you use your trusty toolset to find back to your happy path.
Discovering this toolset was one reason I called my second book on turning life into fun games a “Happiness Formula.” It really is a formula to help us when we think that we deviated or bounced off our path of being happy.
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Your tools to turn life into fun games
These tools — or this formula — is as follows:
- Awareness, plus
- Ability to break anything —a challenge, project, task, activity — into the smallest, most effortless, and digestible bits, and
- Gamefulness and playfulness.
And here is one more quote I used in the book, which rounds up wonderfully the message of those above. I found it when I wrote the concluding chapter of the Self-Gamification Happiness Formula:
“Life is a game and you are the player.
As you master the game, so you also create it.”
— Jay Woodman
To find out more about how you can design and play the fantastic collection of games called life, check out the Self-Gamification Happiness Formula, which is an in-depth discourse on how you can find back to your happy way of life by applying the happiness formula of Self-Gamification, which embraces anthropology, kaizen, and gamification — the three in one toolset listed above.
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Enjoy your happy path and let it be gameful, playful, and fun!